If you don't have any income then you need to contact the DPA. They can help you until you can support yourself and children. They can at least advise you on what to do. Can't imagine that you can continue like this.
06 sep 23 door lid: -MorticiaAddams
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I sure hope you can get a income somehow and not have to be forced to let him stay with you especially if you don't want him there. prayers for you 🙏🙏 sweetie
06 sep 23 door lid: SaraRiley
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I got people back in Illinois I'm talking with... I really don't wanna stay here....this isnt my house, he bought it and it's in his and his mom's name...
06 sep 23 door lid: DAZEY_iz_Well
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06 sep 23 door lid: rcguenth
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Do you have women's refuges over there? Over here, you call them. They come and collect you and take you to a safe house, get you a social worker, get you on a benefit, arrange a house for you to move into. etc etc etc. Just a phone call.
06 sep 23 door lid: Bubbles McBubble
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go to a women's shelter. They'll help you get on your feet, especially since you have kids
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Failures are a necessary part of the road to success in any endeavor. Learn from your past then forget about it.
Build your dreams and goals off of your future potential, not your past experience. You aren’t the person you were a year ago and you shouldn’t be the same person this time next year. Keep evolving and you can become unstoppable in life.
06 sep 23 door lid: Turbobrownie
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Apply for assistance, get a social worker. Apply for housing, food stamps.
06 sep 23 door lid: StormsGirl
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That’s what the system is there for until you can get on your feet.
I was on housing assistance and food stamps for 4 years while I got my teaching degree.
I worked part time and paid partial rent. The system saved my life.
06 sep 23 door lid: StormsGirl
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There must be services in your area for 'women in transition'. Social services, assistance, even housing. Your local police, ER or library can give you numbers to call.
06 sep 23 door lid: erikahollister
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Dazey, you really seem to have the right idea here. If it is helpful, maybe make a table of issues with a column for the issues you can address right now, near future or much later and then a column about how you propose to manage the issue? This type of structure has helped me address complex problems in the past. Libraries are good places to think clearly. ❤️🩹❤️🔥
07 sep 23 door lid: unity1234
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Turbobrownie- beautiful wisdom thank you.
07 sep 23 door lid: DAZEY_iz_Well
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All others - women's shelter seems to be common denominator here. Thank you all for the tips
07 sep 23 door lid: DAZEY_iz_Well
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